Don’t Hold Back Your Cherish

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Don’t Hold Back Your Cherish

by Kayla Howard

I’ve noticed a growing trend that is starting to trouble me.  I hear a lot of clamoring about how this personality is different than that one–and that’ why this does this and that does that.  And…well, we end up spending a lot of time focusing on our difference.

Each one of us is unique, there’s not doubt about that.  But I see a small problem with so much emphasis on how we are different.  Everyone is truly, truly unique!  I get that. No two people have ever been, or will ever be created the same!  God gave each person a unique gifting.

But you know what? There’s something special about how we are the same.

Our unique abilities, gifts, talents, etc… those are one side of a “coin” while the other side of the coin is camaraderie and pulling together by finding our common ground.

Cherish each other for all the ways your are different.  Be thankful to how other people fill out what you are not.  Take delight in the gifts and talents of others.  

In addition to that, take time to cherish someone by finding the common ground.  

Intentionally remember all the areas in which you and your spouse share sameness.   Do something that you both love.  Create an atmosphere of acceptance by fostering mutual enjoyment.

Don’t hold back your cherish–unleash it full on today.


Kayla Howard loves doing business from her home in the woods where she is the master real food chef, homeschool teacher, goat shepherdess, head gardener and holds a certificate of studies from The Pacific Institute of Aromatherapy Her passion is vibrant health in beautiful homes!

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